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第1段
1 .<-NARRATOR:-> Now listen to part of a lecture in a psychology class.
现在请听心理学课上的部分内容。
第2段
1 .<-MALE PROFESSOR:-> So here's an example...
我这有一个案例：
2 .my daughter had a friend over to our house recently and they decided to watch a movie together.
最近我女儿的一个朋友来我们家玩儿，她们决定一起看一部电影，
3 .Only they got into an argument because they couldn't agree on what movie to watch.
但是在选电影的时候她们起了争执。
4 .My daughter started to get quite upset during the argument
我的女儿争执期间开始变得非常烦躁，
5 .which wasn't like her at all.
这一点也不像她的风格。
第3段
1 .But then my daughter stopped and
不过接着她就停了下来，
2 .thought about why she was so upset...
想了想她之所以变得如此烦躁的原因。
3 .she realized her reaction was inappropriate,
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4 .and she also realized she wasn't really upset with her friend,
还发现她并不是真的生她朋友的气，
5 .there was something else bothering her.
而是被其他事情困扰着。
6 .You see, she had just gotten this summer job as a camp counselor for children
是这样的，她刚接下了一份暑期工作——在夏令营给孩子们当辅导员。
7 .and she was feeling a lot of worry and stress about how well she would do
她对自己的表现有些担忧和紧张，
8 .since she'd never worked with children before.
因为她之前从没和孩子们一起工作过。
9 .So she figured out that she wasn't upset about what movie to watch with her friend
就这样，她发现她烦恼的并不是要和朋友一起看哪部电影，
10 .but about starting her new job.
而是她即将开始的新工作。
11 .She really wanted it to go well...
她非常希望工作能够顺利，
12 .she wanted the kids to like her.
孩子们都能喜欢她。
13 .And when she understood this,
于是当她意识到这一点之后，
14 .she stopped arguing with her friend
她马上停止了和朋友争吵，
15 .and apologized to her.
并向朋友道歉。
16 .She told her friend how anxious she felt about starting the job and
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17 .how sorry she was about getting upset with her.
她告诉她的朋友她对开始工作感到多么不安，以及她非常抱歉对朋友发火。
18 .And her friend encouraged her,
她的朋友反而鼓励她说
19 .saying she'd do great at the job.
她一定会表现得很好的。
20 .So my daughter felt better
于是我的女儿感觉好多了，
21 .and they relaxed and had fun together,
然后她们放松了一下又一起玩闹了起来，
22 .the same as always.
就像什么都没发生过一样。